Illustration by Rose Lowry

We first need to foster safe spaces for divided groups to listen to the other side’s feelings, perceptions, and concerns as the basis for dialogue and respect. Most conflict and postconflict settings lack those spaces.

Having access to the other side’s perspectives is essential. It allows people to have an understanding that challenges the negative stereotypes and fears that have grown up over time.

Regularly encountering the thinking and feelings of the other side triggers a basic human desire to clarify perceptions and exchange views. This is the moment when authentic dialogue begins; it grows from within and is not forced from the outside.

AED can play an “accompanying” role in this process by increasing the number of inclusive spaces that embrace—rather than reject—diversity. When that happens, mutual respect can really take root in a divided setting.

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